My Soul Aligned Transition Story
About Living Soul Aligned
Living Soul Aligned™ was born out of my own journey, one marked by broken cycles, silent struggles, and the relentless pursuit of worth outside myself.
What I discovered is this: survival may keep you alive, but it will never make you whole.
This isn’t just a program.
It’s the journey I wish someone would have handed me years ago, the pathway back to God, back to truth, and back to the peace that comes when you live aligned with who you were created to be.
And like all real transformation, it begins with a story.
Here’s mine.
In the beginning
Like most, I didn’t grow up in an environment that fostered safety, or healthy empowerment. My early years were marked by loss, and experiences no child should ever carry. Instead of support, I often felt misunderstood. Faith wasn’t spoken of. God didn’t exist in our home.
I learned early:
Love wasn’t unconditional. Affection had to be earned.
Money came only through hard work you didn’t enjoy.
Value was in doing, not in being. Rest, play, or simply existing was lazy.
Life was transactional. Connection came only if you proved yourself useful.
Vulnerability was criticized or gossiped about, so self-reliance became the way forward.
Those beliefs shaped my adulthood. I lived for approval, striving outside of myself for worth and happiness. Life felt like an endless hustle. I stayed in unhealthy relationships because that was normal. I traveled career paths my soul was screaming no to. I abandoned myself for societal expectation, because I had no understanding of my life’s purpose. My identity was tied to the fleeting validation of being accepted by the world.
On the outside, I looked materially successful.
On the inside, I was internally suffering.
The Bottom
Eventually, I hit bottom!
I was trapped in another relationship built on conditions and transactions, a mirror of my past. I was working hard for money in ways that left me numb. I had dreams, but I lacked the faith to follow them.
One day, staring into the mirror, the thought hit me: I’d rather die than live this way. How can this change?
That’s when the shift began. I sought counseling. I learned to feel my feelings instead of numbing them, to calm my nervous system instead of staying in fight-or-flight. I joined a recovery program for codependency. I opened the Bible, not for religion, but for wisdom. Slowly, step by step, I reached out and found a community where I could finally be safe, open, and vulnerable.
There, I learned boundaries. I discovered my inner compass. I began to live right-sized, from a place of surrender.
And life shifted, because I shifted.
What Life is Like Today
And today, I live more grounded, free, and whole.
There’s a settledness in my spirit. A joy that doesn’t rely on circumstances.
I no longer fear being real in relationships, I communicate openly, set boundaries, and stay rooted in who I am.
I no longer chase success for safety.
I no longer live by the world’s rules.
I follow God’s voice now.
I’m off the merry-go-round.
I don’t need to prove my worth.
I live with pure motives, from a place of integrity.
And most importantly…
I finally feel connected to God.
To myself.
And to the purpose I was created for.
It’s been an inner calling for a long time. I know what it feels like to live misaligned. To keep striving, spinning, and searching, yet never feel whole. To try the world’s fixes and still feel empty.
But I also know what it feels like to walk free.
This is my way of giving back what I was given: freedom, wholeness, alignment. Not perfection. Not performance. But peace, clarity, and a life lived from the inside out.
Maybe you’ve reached that breaking point too. Maybe the pain of staying the same finally feels heavier than the fear of change. I wanted to create a doorway for those going through the same, so that you can also learn to break cycles, restore wholeness, and step into who you were born to be.
Why I Created Living Soul Aligned.
Step in for clarity, connection, and a mutual decision on whether this journey is right for you.